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Things Men First Notices About Women — Hmm — Men Do You Agree ??

According to relationship experts, an online poll was conducted and guys generally admitted that there are few signs that a lady  is worth getting to know a little better.

I know I’m not a man but most of the points listed here are subtle. Well If you’re a man and you’re reading this. I will like you to talk me down on all this point. In my little head I think this points are not deep enough or realistic enough.

Jordin Keim of Binoni lists 13 things a guy can definitely notice about a girl:

  1. Good hair: Usually, when a guy sees a girl, his eyes automatically look at her face. And he thinks about whether or not she is pretty to him. But what if his first glimpse of you is the back of your head? Some guys have said that they can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at the back of her head! Wanna know how? Her hair! A girl’s hair is a dead-giveaway on how she takes care of herself and presents herself. Make sure your hair is shiny, luscious and bouncy. Even if you don’t have time to curl it everyday, at least make sure it’s clean and combed out. Your hair should look like it smells heavenly and feels like silk!

  2. Good posture: A girl who carries her head high and stands straight and tall sends a message out into the crowd. It says, “Hey, I’m confident, comfortable and sexy. I’m the girl you want to get to know!” That’s one of the things guys notice first about a girl! Just think how someone with slumpy, slouchy shoulders looks. Would YOU want to get to know someone who walked around like they had the weight of the world on their shoulders?

  3. Your friends: Surprisingly, the company a girl keeps has a big impact on first impressions that she makes. You know the statement “Birds of a feather flock together”? Well, it’s true! And in most cases, if a girl has loud, whiny, sassy or rude friends, a guy may assume the same thing about her, even if she attracted him at the beginning. But if a girl seems to have a tight knit group of friends who all seem to be having a great time together, it sends a signal that she is genuine and caring. That’s one of the things guys notice first and love right away!

  4. Your lips: Kissing has been proven to be one of the world’s greatest stress relievers and research shows that most humans spend about 20,160 minutes per lifetime smooching. Wowza! So it’s no wonder that one of the things guys notice first is your lips. Are they soft and smooth? Red or pink? Shiny and kissable? You can bet that he’s going to be wondering that until he finds out, so why not make it sweet suspense? Your lips should be kiss-ready every time you walk out your front door.

  5. Dance moves: A girl who can dance with the best of them proves a few things: She is confident in her skin, she knows how to have a good time, and she’s not afraid to bust a few moves! Plus, that makes a girl impossible not to notice! So next time you are kickin’ it out on the dance floor, remember that you are being noticed and try to have a good time! Don’t be fake and over-the-top, but do have some genuine fun. Guys definitely notice a girl who is having’ herself a ball!

  6. What you carry around: Believe it or not, your purse and other stuff you take with you reveal a lot about your personality! A girl who carries a huge purse full of makeup and other stuff like that is probably pretty high maintenance. A girl who has interesting books or puzzles on hand has a cool personality and loves to learn. A girl with a bright pink phone case is probably bubbly and sweet to be around! A girl with NO purse at all is laid-back, chill and spur of the moment. The girl who carries toothpaste, travel size deodorant and lint rollers is always prepared for anything. And yes, guys do notice these things, ladies!

  7. Your smile: Oh here’s an obvious one! But no matter how obvious or cliché it may be, guys DO notice a girl who smiles. And most of them can tell if it’s real or fake. There’s a few who can be fooled – I always hate it when a super-nice guy is stuck with a girl who he THINKS is a princess but we all know her game and it’s not nice. But a guy who is attuned and ready can spot a real smile 5 miles out. So get you some teeth whitener and breath strips and get ready to shine, even on days you don’t feel like it. It’s one of the things guys notice!

  8. High heels: Not that you have to wear high heels every single day, but a girl in a pair of skyscrapers is one thing that guys notice first. High heels symbolize sexiness, strength and boldness. So don’t be afraid to pop those babies on every now and then! Mix it up between heels and flats, but make sure you wear heels at least a couple times a week. You never know when Mr. Right will bump into you. And I always say it’s best to be prepared!

  9. Your walk: A sultry strut can reveal a lot to a guy. Remember in “The Princess Diaries” when Princess Mia got walking lessons? It’s true that the way a person walks has a big influence on how they are perceived. Walk with purpose, style, and grace. Walk like a lady! You don’t need to swagger, or walk like you’re on the fashion runway, but do remember that you are a lady and a man-like stomp will not be cute or sexy to a guy!

  10. Your attitude: Probably the most important non-physical thing that guys notice first about a girl is her attitude. A girl can be as beautiful as a sun goddess and as sexy as all get-out, but if she has a bad or ugly attitude, a guy will drop her faster than you can say hello. No man wants to be tied down to a mean witch! So make sure that attitude is in ship-shape, and I guarantee you a guy will notice. I realize we all have bad days, just try not to let the bad days have YOU!

  11. Unique fashion sense: Guys love women who wear unique and interesting clothing over showing too much skin. They would rather you wear something like hot pink skinny jeans, a fox sweater, and a leather jacket than see you with barely anything on.

  12. Your backside: Also known as your bum, booty, or butt! Guys love what you’ve got going on back there and they love when you show it off in those skinny jeans. Be confidant with your beautiful curves, because guys love them!

  13. Your feet: High heels are sexy, however guys want you to take care of your feet as well. Give yourself a pedicure and be kind to your toes and feet because the fellas are looking, especially when you’re wearing sandals that show them off! No-one wants to see scaly, dry cracked heels and ragged toe nails.

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3 comments

  1. An excellent write up. Of a truth , these are what we men look out for in our ladies. Nice and moderate burst is another attribute that men really likes. Not forgetting cool and calm approach when making your points i.e don’t be lousy .

  2. Hmmm! Interesting! We live and learn everyday! Nice write-up.

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